Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get

Why do girls complain about being seen as pieces of meat, sex objects, guys thinking pervey sexist thoughts and not being seen for their personality and brains etc.



Then complain that they can't get a date, boyfriend, love etc.



As no guy is approaching them and treating them as simply a intelligent work collegue and a buddy with a nice persoanlity



And not noticing their new hair or not asking them out or fancying them etc?



You either get one or the other.



Is it any wonder guys dont want to ask ladies out or show any feelings or interest in them as more then a work/student collegue of the same sex when each time they did the girl gets all upset talking about pieces of meat, sex objects, harrasment etc etc?



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

because they cant accept they are sex dolls infact they are so dont mind them



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

Don't steriotype. There are plenty of girls who don't fit your description.



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

Women complain about EVERYTHING a man does.. What's new?



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

I would try to explain it to you at a level you could understand, but am not able to use pictures on this website....



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

Because what women say they want and what they really want are completely different.



eg They say they want a decent guy, yet constantly reject them in favour of the "bad boys" that they really want.



In short, women are liars.



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

has anyone ever taught you never try and understand women, theyll only pickle your brain



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

They want to have their cake and eat it. They say they don't want guys to notice their boobs, but wear low-cut or tight tops.



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

Nope it's the little scrawny men with willy's bigger than their brains who think that. Real men don't



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

i agree with you to a point. if you dont want to be treated that way then dont allow it.



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

No it annoys me when guys are all together with their mates and try show off and say gross stuff to you - but I dont mind a cheeky chappy who flirts!



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

The problem is just that. Women wish that more guys thought of women as people, and most guys just don't. That sure doesn't meant that women should just stop insisting on being treated like real human beings.



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

Because most women want to be loved for their personality instead of their looks. Looks won't last forever (everyone gets old) so they are afraid they will lose their man once their bodies start going downhill.



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

Sounds to me like you have your approaches to women all wrong if you think tis one or the other. (personality, brains OR looks and appearance sexually)



LOTS of men are mature enough to like a womens brains and personality, AND still show interest in them as a sexually attractive prospective girlfriend,. without offending the woman in question.



Work on your methods, and don't decide its all the fault of the women. Approach them right and you'll learn that women CAN be seen for BOTH looks and personality.



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

First of all, you should not be using your job as a datng service: very unprofessional. Second, when you ask a woman out, you shouldn't make her feel like a piece of meat anyway. Women want to be treated as human beings, we are a complete package which includes intelligence and looks (sometimes, ha ha!). You can be friendly and flirty without being offensive: you just have to learn the difference. You are probably very young: let's hope you learn in your twenties!



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

I'm a woman and I completely agree! I think women have gone too far. They want the career and to be seen as intelligent beings but they also secretly want you to think they have nice boobs! It's really funny but, with all due respect, men are just too simple to give both! I don't mean to be mean guys but one thing I have learned from one failed marriage and countless other failed romances is that men are simple creatures and us women just expect too much from them. Whilst I appreciate the right to vote and all I do think that women's liberation has just gone too far. Ladies, men DO respect brains, but they also like to look at boobs and stuff too! Don't be offended girls, just realise that men are simple beings with simple pleasures - and just learn to enjoy each other :)



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

Because most men of today do not have as much respect for women as they use to and women have to put there guards up a lot higher. Most women want a man that can protect her and fight for her (not physically) because if your man wont fight for you if necessary then what's the point?



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

As it is? With a new name? But the same ill thought out bizarro ramblings...



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

I didn't read the whole question but...



To be honest women see men as sex objects as well it's just that we don't see many naked men in videos etc, it's not so obvious.



I don't mind men seeing me as a sex object, I'm just not one.



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

The competition amongst women for men is staggering. Women have been taught, these days, that they have to look sexy in order to attract a man, not realizing that dressing sexy attracts the men who only want sex. The women who wear teddy's out as a top are already ready for bed in a man's eyes. A good, decent man, of course wants a women who is attractive to him (remember that "beauty is in the eye of the beholder"), someone who he can have a conversation with on his level, someone who he feels comfortable enough with to talk about everything. When a man really likes a woman and wants a lasting relationship with her, he will be extremely respectable and will wait a long time before having sex with her. He waits for her to give the okay. Most women today think that if they can turn on a guy by what they wear or by acting or talking in a sexy manner, that they will win over the guy, but they will never have a lasting relationship. The guy will keep having sex with her until he meets the next girl that throws sex in his face. Sex is not love. So do not worry or even give a second thought to this situation. You will be the one with a long lasting, loving relationship. Young men especially, think about sex all the time, especially when its advertised to them constantly. That is mostly the age. As men mature, that changes. But, most men will not turn down a chance for free sex.



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

what i cant stand is creeps who say things outloud and rude/sexual... when walking in a store with my kids or alone.



Knowing full well that men are 'visual' but they dont need to be obnoxious in topics of conversation or remarks that are just plain unasked for! Guys that are repeated like that in my circle of family or friends dont last long...they are ousted. Its not tolerated. And I certainly dont complain Im not dating.



Its by choice. peace



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

oh my weren't u going on %26amp;on about crap which u clearly dont understand!! Let me clear it up for u, which I'm sure both men %26amp;women will agree with me.



U see a man can respect a womens brains %26amp;still wanna go out with her with out treating her as an object.



sexual object meaning: a guy just wanna f*ck her %26amp;that is it, %26amp;they look at a women %26amp;just want sex.



but ask what they thought of the women they loved?? they will say yes, they where attracted to their breasts etc-lol, but its the person they wanted to get to know more, they wanted the person as well as sex-LOL



there is a difference to wanting to be seen as a person(deeper relation) or as an object(sexual thing).



and please we that demand such, gets the man, respect, and great love-making!!



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

treat a girl well and she won,t complain. easy!!



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

You're hanging around with some very strange people. I don't know any women like that at all.



Are you sure that your reality is the same reality as everyone else's



Sounds to me as if you're projecting your own attitude on other people



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

Yes, we can have it both ways! Although something about how a person looks may attract you at first (although not necessarily), true love comes from knowing a person and that they have similar interests and outlook as you. I have known men who initially I am not attracted to and then when I get to know them I love them because they are kind and treat me with respect. I have also attracted the most unlikely men when I have gotten to know them so it must be something in my personality. My parents are another good example of people being friends and lovers at the same time. Guys who just think women are there for their benefit are morons. How many bulls look at cows and think "corr, what lovely udders she has?" Not many I bet (unless they are calves still being fed by their mothers).



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

seriously...did you even think your rant through!?



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

The 10 Most IRRITATING things men think Us women do during sex are:



But what about them...let's see.



1. We get mad if they change channels back to the ballgame.



(They say is great for now, but Barry Bonds hits next inning!)



2. We want to play our favorite John Tesh or Yanni CD.



(They cannot do their business閳ヮ洅istening to those shmucks!)



3.We are always UNCOOPERATIVE in a moving car!



( They say Look, we've got cruise control, and NOBODY can see!)



4. We burn a candle, but absolutely REFUSE to videotape.



(But they taped over our wedding video, but don't hold a grudge!)



5. We always take so, so long!



("Ooh, ooh, I want to come too!" They just hate that!)



6. We always forget to restock the batteries!



( Well there's stuff they don't have enough energy to keep doing!)



7.We complain too much about that "SIZE" thing!



(Well I guess that "big feet-big hands" thing is a myth!)



8. We refuse to wear the mink handcuffs they bought Us.



(No, They won't let us put them on Him,They don't trust us!)



9. We forget, as usual :), to bring a TOWEL!



(It's their fault for taking the towel with them anyway!)



10. We won't ever let our girlfriend join in the fun.



(He only asked twice, now he complains we've gone all Oprah on him!)



These are merely a few of the things women do. Men however, do thousands of more irritating things just to get a woman IN their beds. In gambler's parlance: This bet is always a PUSH!



If love is blind, then love happens to be deaf and dumb too! Their silly shortcomings are no better, or worse, than ours. So back off your pre-conceived agendas in the battle of sexes and just enjoy what you've got, while you've got it!



i got this from a male's magazine about woman



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

why do u care?



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

The work place is for work not lusting over women. It is for work. Women are smart. Men do take that for granted. Women can be sensitive to.



I feel that you men should go to a class and learn how to react to women, because most of you don't have a clue.



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

look.....if she dresses like a hooker, talks like a hooker and walks like a hooker treat that hoe as such but if she looks like a lady, talks like a lady, acts like a lady, treat her like a lady.



look for a lady and u wont have those problems. the way she represents herself will let you know how to react to her.



Why do girls complain about being seen as sex objects not brains personality, then complain cant get bfs etc?

If a guy wants to be a girl's boyfriend he doesn't necessarily see her as a piece of meat. To some it may seem rare, but there are guys out there who want a real, healthy relationship, not just sex.....they see that as an added bonus haha. And not all girls think the way you described either. Chances are if you hear a woman complaining, she was out the night before in search of a relationship and got hit on by some creepo who grabbed her butt or some other part of her. And it's not really you either get one or the other, there would be no relationships out there.

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